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March 22, 2010

Engaged is the New Black

Filed under: Weddings — sashyjane @ 5:46 pm

Every time I get on Facebook or check my phone, I have a message, feed update or text letting me know that somebody else I know is engaged.  Most of these people are acquaintances but some are good friends.  With the quickly approaching nuptials come wedding showers.  While not exactly my style, many brides register for everything they could ever possibly need in married life and then friends give 3, 4, 5 or even more showers! With that many showers, it’s fun as the hostess to come up with something completely different and unexpected than the typical afternoon tea with all the frills.

Monograms & Mimosas

Danielle hosted a shower like this and I think it’s darling! If your bride doesn’t drink or you’re hosting an afternoon or evening shower, you could change the mimosas to mochas or margaritas.  Have guests bring the bride a monogrammed something (towels, pillowcases, lucite tray, wine glasses, shower curtain, silver, etc) and serve the drinks while she unwraps.

Date Night

Have guests bring a pre-packaged date for the couple. Examples include gift certificate to Fandango or the local theater and microwave popcorn, reservations at a fancy restaurant, a picnic basket and nice bottle of wine, gift certificate for a spa or two pairs of bowling gloves with certificates for the local bowling alley. Set the party up like a romantic date. Serve wine, have candles and let guests munch on oysters and chocolates. This works well as a couples shower.

Round the Clock

Assign each guest with a time of day and have them bring a gift of something you might be doing at that time of day.  For example, 8:00 a.m. could bring a waffle iron or juice glasses, 10:00 a.m. could bring gardening tools, Noon could bring a panini press or placemats, 2:00 p.m. could bring a lemonade pitcher and glasses, 6:00 p.m. could bring a bottle of wine or a casserole dish, 8:00 p.m. could bring ice cream bowls, 10:00 p.m. could bring bed linens, etc. Present the bride with a beautiful clock at the end of the shower.  The party could have a sort of vintage feel with pinks and mint greens and favors, invitations and decorations could revolve around the time theme.

The Alphabet Game

Assign each guest with a letter of the alphabet.  Reach into a bag of Scrabble tiles and give out random letters or if you’d like, assign letters that spell a word out like “Best Wishes” or the bride’s new last name.  Have the guests bring gifts that start with that letter.  For example, the letter B could bring bathmats or E could bring an egg tray. Have the guests mark their gifts with the letter so that they spell out the word or have the bride guess what the word is. This works well for baby showers too.

Paper Shower

Give the bride stationery, wrapping paper, drawer liners, etc. Get creative with your paper gifts. Serve paper-thin crackers, use all paper plates/napkins/cups, decorate using only paper.

Organizational Shower

Give the bride storage bins, labels, drawer organizers, matching hangers, etc. Visit organize.com for creative and cute storage solutions.  This works especially well for two people who’ve had their own lives for quite some time and are having difficulty meshing their things. This would be great if it was held at the couple’s new home and guests could help her organize things with her new tools.

Around the House Shower

Assign each guest a room in the house and have them bring a gift for that room. Ex: bedroom- sheets, bathroom- towels, kitchen- measuring cups, etc.

Other ideas aka things I”m too lazy to make a collage for include a Stock the Bar/Cellar Shower, Tool Shower (for the groom), Gardening Shower, Cooking Shower (have a chef teach the group a dish that’s perfect for 2 and have the guests bring a favorite cookbook and/or recipe ) and  Stock the Pantry Shower

What’s the most clever and different shower you’ve ever been to?



  1. LOVE the title. Could not be truer.

    Comment by susiemaeday — March 22, 2010 @ 9:37 pm

  2. I love this post!! What a great source for showers. I, too, host many a baby & wedding shower, and I’m thrilled to have a new resource for ideas.

    Comment by JENA — March 23, 2010 @ 2:11 pm

  3. I went to a date night shower a few months ago. It was for a close friend, and most of the guests were close, old friends. It was a delightful way to know my friends more — to see what they consider to be a fun/romantic/special date, especially from the women who are married or seriously dating.

    Comment by Leah — March 23, 2010 @ 3:32 pm

  4. I was invited to one recently called Monograms and Mimosas. You were to take a gift that was monogrammed… only in the South would we have parties like this!

    Comment by Brooke @ Blueprint Bliss — March 30, 2010 @ 4:01 pm

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